Why Do Some Parents Publicly Shame Their Children?

774-word article I remember when I was very young, perhaps 4 or 5 years old, my mother would shame me in public for anything i did that she considered a transgression, by threatening to take down my trousers and spank me. This would have been in the 1970s when attitudes towards child maltreatment were more …

Does Parental Clinical ‘Overvaluation’ Of Their Child Create A Narcissist?

Freud first introduced the concept of parental ‘overvaluation’. ‘Overvaluation’ is a clinical term used by psychologists and it can be defined as parental behavior that encourages the child to believe s/he is more entitled than others, superior to them, and entitled to privileges denied to others. Such parents will frequently over praise their children, overclaim …

5 Defenses Used By Narcissists To Hide Inner, Extreme Fragility

      Despite superficial indicators of the polar opposite, internally narcissists are wracked by intense feelings of self-doubt, inadequacy, vulnerability, fragility, worthlessness and self-loathing; in essence, their internal, camouflaged self is that of a highly anxious, uncertain, frightened and deeply insecure child. And, because it is so painful to live in a state of …

Narcissism : The Roles Of Nature, Nurture And Culture

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To what degree are narcissists created by their genetic inheritance (nature) and to what degree by the environment in which they grow up (nurture)? The Role Of Nature : According to a leading expert in the field of the study of narcissism, Dr Craig Malkin  (Harvard Medical School), author of the fascinating book The Narcissist …

Types Of Narcissist : Extraverted, Introverted/Covert And Communal

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  We have already seen what the effects can be upon the child who is brought up by a parent with a narcissistic personality disorder as well as how some forms of dysfunctional upbringing can put the child him/herself at risk of developing a narcissistic personality disorder. However, some narcissistic individuals are easier to identify than …

Healthy Narcissism Versus Unhealthy Narcissism (Kohut’s Theory).

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  ‘Healthy’ Versus ‘Unhealthy’ Narcissism : We have seen from other articles that I have published on this site that being brought up by a parent or primary caregiver who suffers from a narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) can result in us developing serious psychological difficulties in later life; indeed, this includes increasing our own risk …

Is Your Mother Self-Absorbed, Lacking In Empathy And Narcissistic?

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I have already published several articles on the effects on us of being brought up by a narcissistic parent. In this article, I intend to focus upon the main characteristics that are frequently found in narcissistic mothers. These characteristics are as follows: 1) Self-absorption: she regards her own needs as absolutely paramount which completely take …

Sadistic-Narcissistic Parents And Their Effects

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        1431 word article. Sadistic-narcissistic parents need to feel superior to others and maintain power and control over them. In order to achieve this end, s/he is willing to inflict pain upon others, most frequently emotional and psychological pain, but sometimes physical pain too. Sadistic-narcissistic parents will frequently be prepared to inflict …

Narcissistic Personality Disorder : Its Link To Childhood Trauma

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This article examines the link between narcissistic disorder and childhood trauma. Several of my articles have already looked in some detail at the link between childhood trauma and the subsequent risk of developing a personality disorder (or disorders) if appropriate psychotherapeutic intervention is not sought. Whilst precise mechanisms underlying the link between childhood trauma and subsequent development of …