Narcissistic Mother Checklist (And Useful Links)

narcissistic mother checklist

Narcissistic Mother Checklist :

I have published many articles about narcissism on this site, including articles about how traumatizing it is for children to be brought up by a narcissistic parent.

In this article, I wish to distil down into one list the most prominent traits, characteristics, attitudes and behaviors that the narcissistic mother may display ; here is the list (the useful, clickable links are in BLUE – clicking on these will take you directly to the relevant article in this site’s archives) :

 

  • extreme reluctance to admit being in the wrong (due to being in a state of denial, lack of insight or dishonesty) and, in the unlikely event that she does, minimizes or makes light of the harm done by her behavior
  • undermines, criticizes and denigrates you
  • treats you with contempt, disdain and derision
  • treats you dismissively, including being dismissive of your legitimate and deeply felt feelings
  • does not respect your personal boundaries
  • makes you question yourself / keeps you ‘off balance’ / mentally disorientated and confused
  • can make you start to question your own sanity, including by using the ‘gaslighting‘ technique
  • prone to jealousy and envy
  • vindictive
  • resentful and unforgiving
  • holds grudges
  • deceitful and devious

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narcissistic mother checklist

  • constant need to be center of attention
  • sees self as being ‘at the center of the universe’
  • hypersensitive
  • self-absorbed
  • emotionally ‘terrorizes’ you
  • selfish
  • immature
  • petty
  • undermines and interferes with your relationships
  • prone to extreme aggression
  • exploits and takes advantage of you
  • behaves how she likes and shows no shame about this (however, narcissists feel an extreme amount of internal shame)
  • parentifies you
  • seems oblivious to the sensitivity, feelings and vulnerability of others
  • blames others
  • as a psychological defense mechanism often unconsciously projects her own negative feelings about herself onto you

(The above list is not exhaustive and individuals suffering from narcissistic personality disorder will not necessarily demonstrate all of the above traits, characteristics, attitudes and behaviors.)

 

RESOURCE :

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You may also wish to read my article : FOUR TYPES OF BORDERLINE MOTHER

or you may wish to browse all my articles on the subject of narcissistic personality disorder.

 

David Hosier BSc Hons; MSc; PGDE(FAHE)

 

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